Fisting (also known as fist fucking ( FF) and handballing
Fisters have developed a distinct subculture with its own history, norms, and values, including literature and clubs for sexual, social, and spiritual exploration.
History
Fisting's emergence as a sexual practice is commonly attributed to gay male culture.
However, its precise origin is disputed. Some claim fisting began in the twentieth century,
whereas others assert the practice dates back to the eighteenth century or earlier.
Sex educator Robert Morgan Lawrence, for example, claimed the practice dates back thousands of years.
[Gayle Rubin, "The Catacombs: A Triumph of the Butthole", in Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice, Alyson Press, 1992, , pp. 119-141; reprinted in Deviations: A Gayle Rubin Reader, Duke University Press, 2011, , , retrieved September 30, 2014.]
Fisting gained visibility and popularity around the time of the gay liberation movement.
, a gay and lesbian fisting club.]]By 1980, associations had formed in major cities around the world for fisters to meet, play, and socialize with like-minded men,
Fisting parties became a major social activity for "dedicated handballers," some of whom attended as many as three each month.
Crisco was commonly used as a fisting lubricant since it was inexpensive and widely available,
The onset of the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s claimed the lives of countless fisters, many of whom were particularly vulnerable due to the common pairing of fisting with Unprotected sex and drugs.[Gayle Rubin, "Elegy for the Valley of Kings: AIDS and the Leather Community in San Francisco, 1981-1996", in In Changing Times: Gay Men and Lesbians Encounter HIV/AIDS, ed. John H. Gagnon, Peter M. Nardi, and Martin P. Levine, University of Chicago Press, 1997, , pp. 101-144.] Although closures were supported by some members of the gay community, many regarded the closures as a product of Homophobia hysteria as well as Antisexualism attitudes and disapproval of gay sexual activity in particular.
Fisting's visibility and popularity has grown in the twenty-first century,
Techniques
Trust between partners is generally imperative to ensure physical and psychological safety and enjoyment.
A common technique, particularly for beginners, is to extend four fingers straight with thumb tucked beneath. Some refer to this technique as the "silent duck."
In more vigorous forms of fisting, often referred to as "punching" or "punch fisting", the hand is partly or fully clenched into a fist before, during, and/or after insertion.
, hands are inserted up to the wrist.
Some experienced fisters enjoy deeper penetration, referred to as "depth play", in which hands may be inserted as far as (or past) the elbow.
Taking two hands at once is referred to as "double fisting".
In the case of double fisting, pleasure may be derived more from the stretching of the anus or vagina than from the in-and-out movement of hands.
In rare cases, experienced fisters are capable of taking three hands.
Lubricants designed specifically for fisting or with fisting as an intended use are widely available in some countries.
Douching is common before anal fisting both for aesthetic purposes and to reduce risk of fecal contamination.
Terminology
According to
The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, "fisting" and "fist fuck" entered the American slang lexicon no later than 1969.
Common fisting-related terms include:
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Fist; fist fuck (verb): "the practice of inserting the hand (and part of the arm) into a partner's anus (or vagina) for the sexual pleasure of all involved,"
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Handball: synonym for fisting
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Fister; fist-fucker: a practitioner of fisting; or, depending on context, a penetrative partner ("top") in a fisting session involving two or more people.
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Fistee: a receptive partner ("bottom") in a session involving two or more people.
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Punch; punch fist (verb): fisting in which the hand is partly or fully clenched into a fist before, during, and/or after insertion.
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Double; double fist (verb): fisting in which two hands are inserted simultaneously.
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Rosebud; rectal prolapse: when rectal walls prolapse to such degree that they protrude out of the anus. Can be induced by fisting or other anal play (named due to resemblance to a rose).
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Bloom (verb): the act of inducing a rosebud or prolapse.
In medical contexts, fisting is sometimes referred to brachioproctic eroticism
or brachioproctic/brachiovaginal insertion.
"Fisting" and "handballing" are often used interchangeably, but some consider the former term to be crude or violent and perceive the latter as more closely associated with "intimate love-making and spiritual communion."
Risks
Safe enjoyment of fisting requires an understanding of potential risks and techniques for mitigating them.
Fisting carries a risk of transmitting sexually transmitted infections. When practiced improperly, fisting can cause serious injuries, including perforation of the vagina,
perineum, rectum, or colon, that in rare cases can result in death.
Sexual activities that force air into the vagina can lead to a fatal
air embolism, predominantly during pregnancy.
A 2021 study found that men who practiced anal fisting were more likely to experience fecal incontinence than men who engaged in other forms of anal sex, but more research is required to establish a causal link and determine whether this is temporary or long-term.
According to Barcelos, "clinical and forensic research has over-inflated the 'dangers' of fisting without an understanding of contexts in which fisting takes place", and that anal and vaginal fisting present "low to no risk" of sexually transmitted infections.
In popular culture
References to fisting can be found in art, music, cinema and other forms of popular culture. Examples include:
Art
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The San Francisco South of Market Leather History Alley, opened in 2017, honors Steve McEachern (owner of the Catacombs)
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Erotic photography by Robert Mapplethorpe, including "Double Fist Fuck" (1977),
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Erotica by Tom of Finland,
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Hanky Panky (2020) by Kent Monkman
Performance art
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In Solar Anus (1999), Ron Athey challenged the feminization and sexual roles associated with male penetration by both giving and receiving penetration through self-fisting.
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In Being Green (2009), Jess Dobkin was fisted while dressed as the hand puppet Kermit the Frog.
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In 2013, Detroit-based artist Jerry Vile placed a 4-ft. tall can of Crisco in front of the fist-shaped Monument to Joe Louis for "helping to ease the pain of Detroit's bankruptcy."
Music
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The album cover for Slide... Easy In by Rod McKuen (1977) depicts gay porn star Bruno's fist clenching "Disco" shortening.
[1977 cover art for Slide Easy In by Rod McKuen, digitized and published on Blogspot.com on January 29, 2015. Inscription on cover reads, in part: "If this album sounds different, it tried to be. The performers, producers, the players (whether part of the enormous rhythm section or the full symphony complement of strings) knew this was a project everyone had to get into; not just on the surface, but deeply—and together. If you don't feel "easy in" then perhaps your threshold of pain or pleasure needs looking into. ... Photos of Bruno courtesy of Target Studios. Bruno Courtesy of The Bull Pen. Special thanks to Target."] The inscription states "this was a project everyone had to get into; not just on the surface, but deeply—and together. If you don't feel "easy in" then perhaps your threshold of pain or pleasure needs looking into."
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"Krisco Kisses" (1984) by Frankie Goes to Hollywood
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"Stinkfist" (1996) by Tool
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Music video for "House of Air" (2017) by Brendan Maclean
Film
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Caligula (1979)
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Cruising (1980)
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(1999)
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Fifty Shades of Grey (2015)
Pornographic films
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Drive (1974)
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Candy Strippers (1978)
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The Other Side of Aspen (1978)
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Erotic Hands (1980)
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Tampa Tushy Fest, Part 1 (1999)
Television
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In 1993, Julian Clary joked "I've just been fisting Norman Lamont 'round the corner" during a live broadcast of the British Comedy Awards viewed by 13 million people.
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In South Park season 5 episode 14 ("Butters' Very Own Episode," December 2001), Butters Stotch' father watches the film "Fisting Firemen 9" at a gay adult theater.
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Judges and contestants on RuPaul's Drag Race and its spin-offs are known to sometimes make fisting-related jokes.
Literature
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All trilogy (1969–1971) by Dirk Vanden
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The Fist Fucker's Manual (circa 1970) by Art Hamilton
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Faggots (1978) by Larry Kramer
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Maitreya (1978) by Severo Sarduy
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The Divine Androgyne According To Purusha (1981) by Purusha Larkin
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The Intelligent Man's Guide to Handball (The Sexual Sport) (1983) by R.A. Fournier
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Trust: The Handbook: A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing (1991) by Bert Herrman
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(1997) by Deborah Addington
Clubs
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Crisco Disco, discotheque in New York City (1970s-1980s)
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Catacombs, sex club in San Francisco (1975 to 1981, reopened at another location from 1982 to 1984)
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Mineshaft, bar and sex club in New York City (1976–1985)
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Caldron, sex club in San Francisco (1980–1984)
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Crisco Club, gay bar and sex club in Florence (est. 1981)
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La Fistinière, fisting guesthouse in Assigny, France (2007–2018)
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Le One Way, gay bar and sex club in Paris, France
International Fisting Day
In 2011, adult performers
Jiz Lee and Courtney Trouble designated October 21 as "International Fisting Day" to promote visibility and to protest pornography companies' refusal to distribute films depicting fisting.
In 2025, Fist Club Europe e.V. designated May 5 as a second date of observance for the holiday, with a focus "on the lived practices of the global gay community." As the fifth day of the fifth month, May 5 (5/5) symbolizes the five fingers of each hand.
Other
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In the handkerchief code, the color red signifies interest in fisting.
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In 1980, Drummer reported plans for an annual "Mr. Fist Contest" organized by the Rodeo Riders, a Chicago-based leather club.
Legal status
In some nations, fisting—particularly anal fisting—has historically been
Censorship and criminalized due to its association with gay sex and characterization by critics as an obscene and deviant act.
United Kingdom
In the
United Kingdom, performing fisting
and fisting pornography are both legal.
However, until 2019, the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) considered publication of fisting material to be grounds for prosecution under the Obscene Publications Act 1959
and Section 63 of the Criminal Justice and Immigration Act 2008, the latter of which prohibits so-called "extreme pornography."
In 1998, the University of Central England was involved in a controversy when a library book by Robert Mapplethorpe was confiscated from a student by the police, who informed the university that two photographs in the book (including one involving fisting) would have to be removed. If the university agreed to the removal (which it did not) the book would be returned. The two photographs, which were deemed possibly prosecutable as obscenity, included "Helmut and Brooks, NYC, 1978", which shows anal fisting.
However, after a delay of about six months, the affair came to an end when Peter Knight, the Vice-Chancellor of the university, was informed that no legal action would be taken.
The book was returned to the university library without removal of the photos.
In
R v Peacock (2012), the jury found Michael Peacock not guilty of breaching the Obscene Publications Act for selling
containing anal fisting.
That same year, a jury took less than 90 minutes
to acquit Simon Walsh for possession of images of anal fisting that the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) alleged constituted illegal, extreme pornography.
In 2019, the CPS declared it would no longer prosecute pornography produced by consenting adults engaging in legal acts,
including fisting.
United States
Fisting was historically subject to censorship in the United States. For example, in the 1970s, the Los Angeles Police Department forced director
Wakefield Poole to remove depictions of fisting from his films as a precondition for airing them in the city.
Fisting was included on the Cambria List, meant to be a list of sex acts that carry risk of prosecution under U.S. obscenity law, created by
Paul Cambria in 2001 to help producers avoid obscenity lawsuits.
However, as of 2019, the Cambria List is generally regarded as obsolete within the American pornography industry.
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