Chaklong wedding, also known as Saklong wedding, is a traditional Ahom people marriage system. It is still practiced by many Ahom people today.
The Chaklang custom, considered a social tradition among the Ahoms, has been practiced since the era of the Ahom kings. An illustrative example is the marriage of Swargadev Rajeswar Singha to Princess Kuranganayani of Manipur. To trace the origin of this custom, it dates back to when Lengdon married the eldest daughter of Ak-Kai-Mo-Hung, Nang-Hun-Pha. The matrimonial process commenced with Lengdon sending a ceremonial gift of betel leaves and Areca nuts, adorned at both ends and presented on Sarai platters with stands, all enveloped in hand-made red towels. This marked the inception of the Chaklang tradition.
A suitable girl is identified, and the boy's family approaches her family with a 'Sodhanibhar,' which includes betel nuts and leaves, rice, ducks, and more. If there are no concerns with the boy's family, a date is set for the girl's family to visit and observe the boy's family's lifestyle. Subsequently, a wedding date is agreed upon.
Following this, the bride and bridegroom exchange knives, and uncooked rice in a basket is brought forth. Each of them secretly places a ring into the basket, intending for the other to discover it and wear it on their finger. This exchange of knives and rings is the pivotal part of the ceremony. Afterward, the bride and bridegroom are escorted outside to pay their respects to the bride's parents and the assembled guests, thus completing the marriage.
Two days before the wedding, the priest undertakes a pilgrimage to a river or tank to conduct pujas in honor of God Khoakham. Offerings of rice, eggs, betel nuts, and betel leaves are presented. Using a jokai, a bamboo fishing implement, the priest "fishes" in the water three times. If a fish is caught, it is prepared and served to the soon-to-be-married couple as a protective measure against any unfortunate events.
On the day preceding the wedding, the deoban ceremony takes place to venerate various Ahom deities. The priest imparts wisdom from the Ahom sacred texts regarding the rights and responsibilities of married life. The ancestral history of both families, spanning seven generations, is recounted to the couple. Subsequently, the couple is ushered into the bride's residence, where they partake in customs such as the exchange of rings, consumption of panchamrita, and engaging in dice or cowrie games.
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