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, (London Borough of Camden), is the origin of the term cottaging.]] Cottaging is a term, originating from the United Kingdom, referring to between men in a (a "cottage" "cottage noun a public lavatory used for homosexual encounters (UK)." or "tea-room"Andre "tearoom; t-room noun a . From an era when a great deal of homosexual contact was in public toilets; probably an abbreviation of 'toilet room'.), or cruising for sexual partners with the intention of having sex elsewhere. Sex Tips for Gay Guys by Dan Anderson; Published by Macmillan, 2002; , The term has its roots in self-contained English toilet blocks resembling small in their appearance; in the English cant language of this became a by referring to sexual encounters. Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang by Paul Baker; Published by Continuum International Publishing Group, 2004; , .

The word "cottage", usually meaning a small, cosy, countryside home, is documented as having been in use during the to refer to a public toilet and by the 1960s its use in this sense had become an exclusively homosexual slang term. This usage is predominantly British, though the term is occasionally used with the same meaning in other parts of the world.

(1984). 9780060924836, Harper Collins.
Among gay men in the United States in the early 1970s, lavatories used for this purpose were called tea rooms.Rodgers, Bruce Gay Talk (The Queen’s Vernacular): A Dictionary of Gay Slang New York:1972 Parragon Books, an imprint of G.P. Putnam’s Sons Page 195.In 1970, an American graduate student at Washington University in St. Louis, published a famous and controversial PhD dissertation, Tearoom Trade: Impersonal Sex in Public Places, on the tearoom phenomenon, attempting to categorize the diverse social backgrounds and personal motives. See .


Locations
Cottages were and are located in places heavily used by many people such as , , and . Often, glory holes are drilled in the walls between cubicles in popular cottages. Foot signals—tapping a foot, sliding a foot slightly under the divider between stalls, attracting the attention of the occupant of the next stall—are used to signify that one wishes to connect with the person in the next cubicle. In some heavily used cottages, an etiquette develops and one person may function as a lookout to warn if non-cottagers are coming.

Since the 1980s, more individuals in authority have become more aware of the existence of cottages in places under their jurisdiction; as such, they have reduced the height of (or even removed doors from) the cubicles of popular cottages, or extended the walls between the cubicles to the floor to prevent foot signalling.


Cottages as meeting places
Before the movement, many, if not most, and men at the time were and there were almost no public gay social groups for those under legal drinking age. As such, cottages were among the few places where men too young to get into could meet others whom they knew to be gay. Prejudice and Pride: Discrimination Against Gay People in Modern Britain by Bruce Galloway; Published by Routledge, 1983; , .

The internet brought significant changes to cottaging, which was previously an activity engaged in by men with other men, often in silence with no communication beyond the markings of a cubicle wall. Today, an online community is being established in which men exchange details of locations, discussing aspects such as when it receives the highest traffic, when it is safest and to facilitate sexual encounters by arranging meeting times. The term cybercottage is used by some gay and bisexual men who use the role-play and nostalgia of cottaging in a virtual space or as a to arrange real life anonymous sexual encounters.

Laud Humphrey's , published in 1970, was a sociological analysis and observance between the social space public "restrooms" (as toilets are euphemistically known in the US) offer for anonymous sex and the men—either closeted, gay, or straight—who sought to fulfill sexual desires that their wives, religion, or social lives could not.

(2026). 9780202369426, Transaction Publishers.
The study, which was met with praise on one side due to its innovation and criticism on the other due to having outed "straight" men and risked their privacy, brought to light the multidimensionality of public restrooms and the intricacy and complexity of homosexual sex amongst self-identifying straight men.


Underground toilet block, Taylor Square, Sydney
An underground toilet block located at the northern end of , Sydney, that was opened to the public in 1883, was a popular place for people to randomly meet and have sex in Sydney for decades until its closure 1998.

In 2024 the toilet block became a part of Qtopia Sydney, a museum that has an extensive collection of objects related to queer culture in Sydney and the toilet block has hosted "exhibitions exploring Sydney's gay beat, sauna and cruising culture of the 1980s and 90s."


Legal status
Sexual acts in public lavatories are outlawed by many jurisdictions. It is likely that the element of risk involved in cottaging makes it an attractive activity to some. Public Sex/gay Space by William Leap; Published by Columbia University Press, 1999; , .

Historically, in the United Kingdom, public gay sex often resulted in a charge and conviction of gross indecency, an offence only pertaining to sexual acts committed by males and particularly applied to homosexual activity. Anal penetration was a separate and much more serious crime that came under the definition of . Buggery was a capital offence between 1533 and 1861 under UK law, although it rarely resulted in a death sentence. Importuning was an offer of sexual gratification between men, often for money. The Sexual Offences Act 1967 permitted sex between consenting men over 21 years of age when conducted in private, but the act specifically excluded public lavatories from being "private". The Sexual Offences Act 2003 replaced this aspect with the offence of "Sexual activity in a public lavatory" which includes solo .

In some of the cases where people were brought to court for cottaging, the issue of arose. Since the offences were public but often carried out behind closed lavatory doors, the police sometimes found it easier to use undercover police officers, who would frequent toilets posing as homosexuals in an effort to entice other men to approach them for sex. Clifford Williams, "Gay men and the police 1950-2010" in The Journal of the Police History Society (2019) These men would then be arrested for importuning or soliciting and in some cases indecent assault.


Timeline of historic cases
1943Newspaper editor Clarence McNulty

was arrested for wilfully and obscenely exposing his person in the Lang Park toilets near Wynyard railway station, Sydney, in New South Wales, Australia. He denied the charges and this early case highlighted the practice of the police using pretty policemen

(1996). 9781857023558, Fourth Estate. .
(i.e. as "bait") to entrap the public. As only one police officer was present in the toilet, the magistrate determined that the police were unable to correctly corroborate the evidence and gave McNulty the benefit of the doubt.
1946, was fined for men at Piccadilly Circus Underground station.
1940sLabour MP was charged with after two men shared his bed in the 1940s and used his position as a journalist several times to get off later charges when caught soliciting in public toilets by the police.
(2026). 9781861057365, Robson. .
1953Actor was arrested and fined £10 for cottaging ("persistently importuning").
(2026). 9781861059772, Anova Books. .
1953MP William J. Field was arrested for persistently importuning in a public toilet. Field appealed against the conviction twice but failed on both occasions.
(2026). 9781862877030, Federation Press. .
(1995). 9780860519577, Robson Books. .
1954American mathematician John Forbes Nash, Jr. arrested in a in Santa Monica, California. He was stripped of his top-secret security clearance and fired from the where he was a consultant.
1956Sir David Milne-Watson was fined for importuning at South Kensington railway station.
1962On 6 November 1962, actor was arrested in a toilet in Shepherd's Bush for persistently importuning.
1962In 1962, the Mansfield, Ohio Police Department conducted a sting operation in which they covertly filmed men having sex in the public restroom underneath Central Park. Thirty-eight men were convicted and jailed for sodomy. After the arrest, the city closed the restrooms and backfilled the site. The police later made a training film of the footage. It was rereleased in 2007 as Tearoom.
1964In October, US President Lyndon B. Johnson's aide was arrested in a YMCA in Washington, D.C., and the case was subsequently dismissed.
(1994). 9781560244196, Routledge. .
1968Michael Turnbull was arrested in Hull for cottaging in a public toilet, before he became Bishop of Durham.
(1998). 9780304333585, Cassell. .
1975In September 1975, actor was arrested (under his real name, Cyril Louis Goldbert) in Gloucester bus station public toilets for gross indecency with Richard Jack Whalley (a truck driver). He was fined £75.
(2026). 9781902578170, Mirage Publishing. .
1976Sixty-six-year-old retired U.S. Major General made sexual advances to an undercover police officer in a public lavatory at a park in Dallas, Texas, on June 23, 1976, and was arrested for public lewdness. The general pleaded no contest and was fined $1,000 and court costs.
1976Former Judge G. Harrold Carswell was convicted of battery for advances he made to an undercover police officer in a public lavatory.Joyce Murdoch, Deb Price, Courting Justice: Gay Men and Lesbians v. the Supreme Court (2002) p. 187.
1981Coronation Street actor was observed exposing himself to another man in a public toilet in , and was charged with importuning. He pleaded guilty and was fined £200. Some months later, Dudley was charged again with gross indecency for an alleged similar offence, though this time he claimed he was not guilty and had been set up by the police. A Crown Court jury failed to reach a verdict, but while waiting for a retrial, Dudley suffered a series of strokes and heart attacks and died on 20 October 1983.
1984The Labour MP Roger Thomas was convicted in of importuning for immoral purposes in a men's lavatory. He was fined £75.Julia Langdon and Paul Hoyland, 'Thomas may delay resignation to help Labour's poll chances', , 5 March 1984, p. 2. Retrieved 15 January 2023.
1984Actor was fined for importuning in a public toilet.
1988Australian radio personality Alan Jones was arrested in a public lavatory block in London's West End and charged with two counts of outraging public decency by behaving in an indecent manner under the Westminster . He was later cleared of all charges and awarded costs.
1990British pop star (of the group ) appeared at Kingston Magistrates Court in October 1990 and pleaded guilty to a charge of after being arrested in a public toilet in in London."We Are Family" (Documentary interview with 5 Star). BBC Television. (7 January 2003)Larkin, Colin (1998). The Virgin Encyclopedia of R&B and Soul, (p.121). Virgin Books/Muze Inc. London, England. Rees, Dafydd & Crampton, Luke (1991). Rock Movers and Shakers, p.172-173 (1991 Rev. Edition). ABC-CLIO, Santa Barbara, U.S. .
1998In April 1998, pop star was arrested for "engaging in a lewd act" in a public toilet in after a sting operation by local police. Although he considered the arrest to be police , he pleaded "no contest" to the charge in court and was fined $810 and ordered to do 80 hours of community service. Later that year, Michael the events in his music video for the song "Outside" and was sued by one of the officers in the original arrest for portraying him as and mocking him. The suit was ultimately dismissed."George Bust 'Bad Karma' Says U.S. Cop", Sunday Star, 5 March 2006
(2026). 9780750708760, Routledge. .
1998In October 1998, Labour Party MP Ron Davies was mugged at knifepoint on . He resigned after it became clear he was engaging in homosexual activities in a known cottaging area.
(2026). 9781861057365, Robson. .
2007On 11 June 2007, Republican US Senator was arrested in the men's public toilet in the Lindbergh Terminal of the Minneapolis–Saint Paul International Airport for allegedly soliciting sex. Craig later pleaded guilty to disorderly conduct and announced his intent to resign from his post as Republican senator from Idaho; ultimately, Craig's Lust. Slate, August 28, 2007 he did not resign. He contested his guilty plea, paid a fine, and served out his term; he did not run for re-election in 2008.
(2026). 9781593117832, IAP. .


Cultural response
  • After the murder of playwright by his boyfriend Kenneth Halliwell in 1967, Orton's diaries were published and included explicit accounts of cottaging in London toilets. The diaries were the basis of the 1987 film Prick Up Your Ears and the play of the same name.
  • The film Get Real was based on the 1992 play What's Wrong with Angry?, which features schoolboys cottaging as a key theme.
  • The 1992 play Porcelain by -born playwright describes cottaging as a backdrop of violence between a gay Asian man and his white lover in a lavatory.
  • The 1994 book Hammy House by features a character named Edward Green, known for his cottaging activities.
  • The Chinese film East Palace, West Palace, released in 1996, is centred on cottaging activity in Beijing.
  • The modern dance company, DV8, staged a piece in 2003 called Men Who Have Sex With Men (MSM), which explicitly portrayed the theme of cottaging.
  • Nicholas de Jongh's play Plague Over England was based on the arrest and conviction of for cottaging and premièred in 2008.
  • The 2017 video game The Tearoom by independent developer simulates cottaging practices set in a public restroom in 1962 Mansfield, Ohio.

  • The 1996 comedy film includes a sequence in which their inept police officer characters manage to arrest only one suspect from a crowded park restroom after dark: 's Danny Husk/Walter Terzinsky, a character who is deeply in denial.


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